What Would You Do: Would You Take The Drink?
What would you do in this situation?
You are in a relationship, and you are out with a group of friends. Your spouse or long-time partner is not out with you.
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Someone comes over and offers to buy you a drink. Do you take the drink or politely decline?
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This happened to a friend of mine's wife over the weekend. She was out with 5 or 6 of her girlfriends when a guy came over and offered to buy her a drink.
She told him, "No Thank You". My friend said that she should have taken the free drink. It would have saved her $10! He said that as long as she was upfront about being married and that nothing would come of it, she should have taken the drink.
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I think that as well. It is a free drink and if you are honest up front there are no expectations of anything going further.
It seems that my friend and I are in the minority when it comes to this train of thought.
On social media, most people commented with that they would not take the drink. Some of the reasons included:
"Don't want to lead him on"
"Want to hang with friends, don't need him to be creeping on me"
Some people were willing to take the drink. They said:
"Didn't want to hurt their feelings so I would take the drink"
"It is a FREE drink.Tell them upfront nothing is going to happen"
"I would take their drink and ignore them"
So what would you do in this situation?
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