RHOC Marriage On The Rocks[VIDEO]

I'm not surprised by Vickiy's announcement.  Vicky who has it all is admitting that her marriage is falling apart. She is not very kind in the way she treats Don. I know things are edited but she speaks down to him and reminds him and others often that she is bringing the larger slice of bread home. "How do you think we pay for this place"? I thought marriage was about being a team and Vicky is not a team player. Are you surprised by the announcement?